In my early twenties, I was always looking for fun at night after work. After 8 hours working in the office, it feels like the time at night should be more outgoing and with friends around. So I usually winded up my night with dates and parties. Never turned down any parties that came to me, never missed any clubs that were having event at that moment, never missed any hot guys from date apps, lol. Life looks life wonderful and interesting all the time, always have friends around, always have hot guys around, always have fun. But gradually I found I am losing my energy, I am starting getting bored of what is happening surrounded, start refusing joining parties, start refusing hangout with friends, start refusing dating. There are good moments for sure with friends, but I just cannot feel satisfied anymore. I gradually spend most of my time home, only hangout with good friends, and staying home doing what I think should be more meaningful and help improve myself, whether it is working